Looking Back With Gratitude

Last week, I shared my plan to spend the weekend flipping through my gratitude journals and reflecting on 2024 before the holiday chaos hit. (If you missed it, you can read about the plan here.) Now that I’ve had the time to sit with it and look back on the year, I wanted to share what came up for me during that reflection.

This wasn’t about setting goals for 2025 or evaluating whether I hit every target I set at the start of the year. This session was purely about gratitude—looking at the moments, people, and experiences that shaped my year and reconnecting with what mattered most.

Every day, I write down three things I’m grateful for. I’ve been doing that since the late ’90s, but over time, the practice has evolved. Alongside gratitude, I now include intentions, affirmations, and a simple wellness plan to start the day with focus and purpose. This yearly reflection feels like an extension of that practice—taking the time to look back at what stood out and what I want to carry forward into the new year.

Some themes stood out clearly this year!

Kiwi and Diesel—my constant companions—appeared in my gratitude journals almost every day. Kiwi is pure chaos, always full of energy and keeping me on my toes. Diesel, on the other hand, is cuddly and affectionate, a constant source of comfort. They’re not just pets—they’re family, and reflecting on how much they bring to my life is always grounding.

Groove is my focus fairy. Groove—a coworking app where you virtually connect with up to four other Groovers from around the world, set intentions, work for 50 minutes, and then regroup—was a game-changer this year. It gave me focus, structure, and even a sense of community I didn't know I needed, all in tiny bursts that made work feel more connected and productive.

Another recurring theme was the words opportunity and possibility. I kept seeing those words throughout my entries, whether it was gratitude for the potential for something good to happen or the chance to take a step in a new direction. Even when the outcome wasn’t certain, I appreciated the openness to try and see where life might lead.

Self-care also appeared consistently. From massages to time spent reading, these rituals have been anchors for me over the years. It’s not just about relaxation—it’s about showing up for myself and making time for the things that nourish me. I’ve also relished using my wellness benefits to make these moments happen, which is another thing I’ve been incredibly grateful for.

These reflections reveal a lot about myself and my relationships. The practice of looking back helps me notice patterns—like what I truly prioritize or what holds the most value for me, even if I didn’t see it clearly at the time. It’s a way to deepen my awareness and reconnect with what feels most meaningful.

For me, this practice isn’t about fixing anything. It’s not about wishing I’d done something differently or chasing perfection. It’s about honouring the year I’ve lived—gratefully, imperfectly—and letting those lessons quietly guide me into the next one.

This month, I’m launching a series of new gratitude journals, and I’d love for you to join me on this journey. If you’re thinking about your New Year’s resolutions, why not make gratitude one of them? There’s so much power in pausing, noticing, and reflecting—and I’m excited to help others explore it, too. Let’s make 2025 a year of intentional gratitude together.